lunes, mayo 05, 2008

Cria a tus hijos con un poco de hambre y frio!!!

Lo recibi por correo y me parecio fantastico ponerlo en el blog.....para los que son padres y para los que algún dia lo seremos.....Creo que Dios ha sido maravilloso con mi esposo y conmigo dandonos amigos con hijos de diversas edades y diciendonos que hay cosas que no puedes o que no debes hacer, ni permitirle a tus hijos que las hagan...Que dificil es ser padres....Pero solo hay que tener temple, y amor cerebral.... (Si ...no puedes criar hijos con el puro corazón)...un besote y disfrutenlo!!!


CRIA TUS HIJOS CON UN POCO DE HAMBRE Y UN POCO DE FRÍOEl amor que les tenemos a nuestros hijos nos lleva muchas veces a cegarnos y a olvidar lo que los hará felices a la larga. Es muy común en estos tiempos que los padres de familia, sobre todo los de ciertos recursos económicos, les construyamos un mundo irreal, sacado de un cuento de Walt Disney, así de la realidad.

Cuando tarde que temprano el cuento termina, nuestros hijos se enfrentan a un mundo que desconocen, que no comprenden, lleno de trampas y callejones sin salida que no saben sortear, y las consecuencias son peores a las que quisimos evitar.

Hace poco la imagen de un padre con lágrimas en los ojos conmovió profundamente al mundo entero. Pelé, el gran ídolo del fútbol de los últimos tiempos, quien a diferencia de otras ocasiones, dio una de las ruedas de prensa más tristes y dolorosas de su Vida: su hijo, Edson de 35 años, fue arrestado junto a 50 personas más en la ciudad de Santos Brasil.

El hijo de Pelé fue acusado de asociación delictiva con narcotraficantes y puede ser condenado a 15 años de cárcel. Con lágrimas en los ojos, el ex futbolista brasileño admitió públicamente que su hijo resultó involucrado en una pandilla de traficantes de cocaína arrestados por la policía. Pelé dijo a los medios: "como cualquier padre, es triste ver a tu hijo metido en grupos como ése y ser arrestado, pero él tendrá que sufrir las consecuencias". Y agregó, "desafortunadamente, yo quizás estaba demasiado ocupado y no me di cuenta."

Es lamentable, porque yo siempre he peleado contra las drogas y no noté lo que pasaba en mi propia casa. Pelé es un personaje mundial admirable como deportista y hombre honesto que no perdió su humildad como otras figuras del deporte. Sin embargo, es triste que un hombre bueno y talentoso como él se haya "distraído" en su jugada más importante: la formación de sus hijos.

La historia de Pelé no es un hecho aislado. Por desgracia es la vida de cientos de padres de familia de estas épocas atrapados en una agendasaturada de trabajo y de fuera de casa. Papás que compensan la falta deatención a sus hijos con bienes materiales. Los inscriben en las mejoresescuelas, los rodean de lujos y comodidades y piensan que con eso yacumplieron con su tarea de padres, cuando lo único que han logrado es formar niños que desconocen el hambre y tiran lo que no les gusta. Hijos tiranos, pequeños monstruos insoportables y prepotentes que sufrirán y harán sufrir a sus semejantes porque desde pequeños se han salidocon la suya.

Muchachitos que creen que sentir frío o calor es cuestión de aire acondicionado, que el cansancio que han sentido se limita a caminar unas cuadras porque no hallaron estacionamiento frente a la discoteca, jovencitos que piensan que el trabajo de los padres es firmar cheques para que ellos tengan todo lo que se les antoja.

¿Qué posibilidades tienen nuestros hijos de convertirse en hombres y mujeres de bien si los papás les damos todo y no les educamos la voluntad? ¿Qué hijos estamos formando si con nuestra actitud les mostramos que el dinero es lo más importante en la vida?

Confucio decía "Educa a tus hijos con un poco de hambre y un poco de frío".Proverbios señala "Corrige a tus hijos". Cuánto bien hacen los padres a los hijos cuando ponen esa máxima tan sencilla en práctica. Y cuánto daño les hacen al ponerles todo en bandeja de plata.

Hay muchas realidades que como padres quisiéramos desaparecer; el sufrimiento de los hijos, el exceso de sudor, de esfuerzo, y las carenciaseconómicas. Sin embargo, quizás esas realidades no los haganfelices de momento, pero a la larga puedan forjarlos como hombres y mujeres de bien. Ojalá que más padres de familia tengan la inquietud de enterarse por dónde andan sus hijos.

Que no les vaya a pasar que cuando tengan tiempo deban decir: "Estaba demasiado ocupado y no me di cuenta".
"ENCARGATE HOY DE LO POSIBLE QUE DIOS SE ENCARGARA POR TI DE LO IMPOSIBLE".

PASALO A TODOS LOS PADRES QUE CONOZCAS, O A LOS QUE LO SERAN PRONTO, A TUS FAMILIARES, AMIGOS Y CONOCIDOS. POR EL BIEN DE NUESTROS HIJOS, PUEDES AYUDAR A ABRIR LOS OJOS EN ALGUN HOGAR.

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Peli: esto tiene certeza 100%!!!
Aunque es muy dificil algunos momentos decirles que no.... más vale lo hagamos porque después lo lamentaremos! Es por su bien.... por eso todos los días entreno mis dotes de Doña Bárbara! Saludos!

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